The Hazard called Growing Up
The world’s most controversial and evident dilemma that every human being has to go through, incessantly! By the end of early to mid – twenties, depending on the level of maturity, almost everyone hones the art of handling and coping with the daily worldly problems, that cross our paths, if not solve them. However, when there’s a civil war between the heart and the mind, how to tame either of them or both for that matter of fact, and arrive at a decision? Even worse, when your subconscious decides to pick a fight between the righteous side and the evil side, the side that guides you to do whatever is good for you and the people closest to you, and the side that selfishly just guides you to fulfil all your desires and supports all your darkest emotions! What do you do? When the subconscious is gone and you’re consciously struggling to prove a point, whom should you turn to, to help you out?
The mind is a surreal place, if you ever enter anyone’s. Externally the person might be the epitome of perfection, but the amount of thoughts and desires he curbs to impress the people around is unfathomable! If the array of thoughts that cross an individual’s mind in every millisecond could be mapped, it would have taken tonnes of reels of paper and yet psychologists wouldn’t have been able to reason out all of them, their source or reason of origin! It’s bizarre how opinions change depending on the situations they face. One thought – provoking idea might have been one’s ideal, an year back, however, might not appeal at all to him, at present! A person can be calm enough to solve the most difficult problems in the world, however, his mind might be a chaotic mess.
While probably there’s absolutely no way one can possibly stop such thoughts and desires to fill him up, yet brain can be trained to act in a certain way to a certain kind of stimuli, in this case, thoughts, and thus, one can avoid the dilemma partially, by ignoring such emotions. However, for how long? There have been instances where, even after years of training, the lurking hope of extraordinary and unusual excites the brain and thus, one might jump at the opportunity of living their curbed desires for once and for all, at times ruining the calm surrounding him. Thus, there lies a cycle of mistakes and amendments that shapes a person’s life and describes how he is!
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